HOW I MAKE IT THROUGH THE DAYS!!!!!
As a child, I was not aware of what support meant being that I grew up in a family who really did not show affection in the household. I was never rewarded on my academic achievements in school or when I participated in extracurricular activities. I lived in a very unhappy household so I did not know the meaning of "support". A few supports that I have within my daily environment now consists of my co-workers, my family, and myself. My co-workers support me through advice forums to let me know that just because I am a single mom, I still can be successful and become whatever I may choose to be if I set the goal. They always encourage positivity in every aspect and have pep talks with me to keep me striving. My co-workers always get me to see the bigger picture when I am stressed or feel like giving up. My family supports me now more than ever because I am in school. They always make sure to keep my daughter when I ask them to with no complaints or even expect anything in return. I admire their support greatly, because I missed out on it within my childhood. My family believes in me more than I believe in myself at times and that motivates me to take that extra step. Most importantly, I support myself to the maximum. Even when I do not feel confident in myself on ocassions, I have to snap back in motivation mode and get back on track. I support myself greatly because I can confide in myself to keep moving forward, encourage myself, and have faith in knowing that hard work pays off. If I did not have support, I would not be working towards a master's degree. I would not be sane enough to handle my full time job, along with my daughter and being a full time student. Supportive people and or things shows you that you are cared for and someone is looking out for your best interest. Everyone needs support. Without support systems, we do not have grounded emotional and mental health. If I did not have support systems, I feel as if I am disconnected from the world. It is good to share experiences with others and interact with them on social levels. support systems should be what someone wants and need for the reassurance. It does not make you weak because you need a support system. We all need them!
